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Helping vs. Enabling

February 17, 2019 By TheVillageLady Leave a Comment

Yesterday I was asked, what is the hardest part of my job? I responded by saying, being careful to avoid burn out, guarding your heart and understanding the difference between helping and enabling.

It’s a fact that people are made to be in relationships with each other. When those of us who are wired to fix what is broken meet members in our community who are hurting, our natural instinct is to fix what’s wrong.

Fixing someone else’s crisis without inviting them to participate in the self investment will only be temporary and the cycle or crisis often repeats itself.

The program at Carried To Full Term, is designed to help women break cycles that lead to a perpetual state of poverty.

Even with those warnings in place, I’ve seen both burnout and hurt happen.

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Filed Under: Blog, Change Maker, Commit, Serving Others Tagged With: burnout, crisis, enable, enablement, enabling, help, invest, natural, nonprofit, relationship, self investment, women

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March 28, 2018 By TheVillageLady Leave a Comment

Don’t quit! Don’t give up! Stay COMMITTED! The fact that you’ve made up your mind to pursue your passion is a noted commitment to difficulty. You may not always see the road ahead but you must stay committed. Athletes trining for the Olympics don’t arrive to athe largest athletic competition in the world by practing half time, only when they feel like it or only when they are doing well during practice. They must practice in the rain, throught the pain and even in the face of failing in their speciality time and time again. I can easily point to notable athletes commitment to their sport even when they weren’t feeling well and the results of their performance during their pain and lack of top health.

I say all that to underscore the importance of not giving up. DON’T GIVE UP!!

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